A Different side

Some say that a child who was abuse at an early age grow up to be abuse with irrational judgements. Please do not believe this way of thinking. Some people who say this have no ideal what abuse is they never experience it though they may have seen it in the
physical form. Let's  Take another look

Example Of a Pattern of Abuse
Some foster Parent are not bad this Forster parent Connie had was.

A little girl name Connie Johnson was told repeatedly for years by her foster parent that she was going to grow up and become nothing, and she was told she was ugly, and no one wanted her. Through Connie's horrific beatings and mistreatment's Connie's willpower and determination allow her to began a journey to prove her Forster
parent was wrong  she began to received good grades and through the years Connie told herself she was somebody, she exits and her name was Connie she developed a compassion and need to help others although she was  one of the less fortunate.

In essence there are some people who were abuse as a child and became professional and successful in all they do .

Another Pattern of Abuse the opposite side
 Another  child under his Bad foster parent who also was abusive and mistreated him said he was never going to mount to nothing and that he was going to grow up to be just like his dad a criminal. Through the years of being told this he latch on to it and he became angry and did not  understand who he was . He devolve a  physiological issue, mental depression unable to be control by others ending up as a runaway, homeless, a thief  using drugs, a alcoholic  later a prison sentences of life.
  In summing up these examples of patterns
 one child was told the same thing as the other Child.  One child made a difference  to do better while the other had  believe in the statement. 
 These are different ways to look at patterns of abuse,
 While one child had children and never abuse them nor mistreated them  she strive to reach out to help others because of the abuse she had went though. Then the other child did much different ending up being lock up in a world were his freedom of being able to find out who he was, was taken away. He past away and was never given the chance to find out who he really was. 

If you know anyone who is going thought any kinds of abuse  there are places that can reach back and help 
domesticshelthers.org
Julian center
Damien center 
joyful heart foundations 
                  Reach back and save a child.