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Earlene WALKER IS THE CEO OF MISSING PIECES PUBLISHING ALSO A FREELANCE WRITER, AUTHOR, AND PUBLISHER WHO WRITES BOOKS TO EDUCATE OTHERS ON GROUP HOME LIVING. EARLENE WAS RAISED IN A GROUP HOME AND HER HISTORY PROMPTED HER TO WRITE HER DEBUT BOOK, MISSING PIECES (MAY 30, 2015). THIS TITLE HAS ALSO BECOME THE BASE FOR HER COMPANY MISSING PIECES PUBLISHING. EARLENE HAS GAIN THE TITLE GRAPHIC DESIGNS, BOOK FORMAT AND EDITOR and SHE EDIT AND DESIGN 12 POEMS AND 14 POST CARDS FOR THE COMPANY COMPASSIONATE DREAMS, SHE EDITED HIS BOOK CALLED THE LETTER WRITTEN BY CALVIN HARRIS EARLENE HAVE GAIN THIS KNOWLEDGE THROUGH RE-DOING HER FIRST BOOK MISSING PIECES TO MISSING PIECES REVEALED in APRIL 2016.
SHE WRITES TO BRING AWARENESS TO THE TREATMENT OF ABUSE AND NEGLECTED CHILDREN AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. EARLENE WALKER WORKS IN THE CAPACITY THAT ALLOWS HER TO TAKE CARE OF OTHERS. EARLENE RESIDES IN INDIANAPOLIS, INDIANA. NO STOP DON"T DO THAT IS HER CHILDREN'S BOOK IN 2016 AND SHE IS CURRENTLY WORKING ON HER NEXT BOOK Called THOMAS SMITH AND SON TOMMY COMING SOON. SHE IS TAKING A STAND TO HELP OTHERS SAY NO! STOP! DON"T DO THAT!
EARLENE ALSO CREATE AND DESIGN CARDS, POST CARD, HOLIDAYS CARD, AND INVITATIONS Cards CALLED SAY WHAT YOU WANT WITH SUITABLE WORDS YOU CAN CONTACT HER THROUGH EMAIL [email protected] EARLENE ALSO SELL ANTIQUE COLLECTIONS
SHE WRITES TO BRING AWARENESS TO THE TREATMENT OF ABUSE AND NEGLECTED CHILDREN AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. EARLENE WALKER WORKS IN THE CAPACITY THAT ALLOWS HER TO TAKE CARE OF OTHERS. EARLENE RESIDES IN INDIANAPOLIS, INDIANA. NO STOP DON"T DO THAT IS HER CHILDREN'S BOOK IN 2016 AND SHE IS CURRENTLY WORKING ON HER NEXT BOOK Called THOMAS SMITH AND SON TOMMY COMING SOON. SHE IS TAKING A STAND TO HELP OTHERS SAY NO! STOP! DON"T DO THAT!
EARLENE ALSO CREATE AND DESIGN CARDS, POST CARD, HOLIDAYS CARD, AND INVITATIONS Cards CALLED SAY WHAT YOU WANT WITH SUITABLE WORDS YOU CAN CONTACT HER THROUGH EMAIL [email protected] EARLENE ALSO SELL ANTIQUE COLLECTIONS
Adult Abuse by Caregivers July 2024
when caregivers neglect to seek effective resources, they may fail to provide proper care for individuals who cannot care for themselves and do not care about using resources for help that is effective. Without care many things can occur when an individual cannot take care of themselves. these vulnerable individuals depend entirely on their caregiver, trusting them with their safety and well-being. However, if the caregiver becomes negligent or reckless this can lead to dangerous situations putting the individual's health and life at risk.
Examples of caregiver neglect include.
Malnutrition where the patient is not provided with proper nutrients leading to severe weight lost and increase vulnerability to viruses and bacteria other serious issues includes:
-**Sepsis** and infection caused by untreated wounds or poor hygiene.
-**Fluid buildup in lungs** resulting from inadequate care or monitoring which can lead to respiratory issues.
** Stage 4 bedsores ** These can develop when patients are not repositioned regularly leading to sores that can reach the bone.
**Aspiration pneumonia ** this can occur when food, liquid or vomit is breath into the lung due to improper feeding techniques.
**Gaslighting ** the patient into questioning their reality which can severely damage their mental health.
**Greed** when caregivers prioritize their own financial gain over the well-being of the patient.
**Dehumanization** treating patients as if they are worthless or less than a human which can lead to severe depression, anxiety and even suicidal thoughts.
When caregivers exhibit bad behaviors, they can make harmful decision that jeopardize a patient's health, safety and survival one such behavior is brainwashing where a caregiver manipulates the patient into compliance by instilling fear of abuse as a result the patient may feel forced to agree with the caregiver's decisions even to the point of refusing necessary medical treatment medication or additional care from professionals
Threatening and harsh words, are another form of abuse, degrades the patient withholds food, water or essential medication and even sells the medication illegally. this can cause significant harm and exacerbate the patient's vulnerability.
Isolation is another tactic used by caregivers, by keeping the patient away from family and friends - though manipulation brainwashing they prevent the patient from seeking help or support. this isolation can be extended from their closet loved ones including parents and children, further increasing the patient dependence on the abusive caregiver.
Fraud is another form of abuse where a caregiver unlawfully takes money intended for the patient's well-being such as Social Security, Retirement, VA benefits or even caregivers pay without providing the necessary care also involve exploiting the patient's insurance policy for personal growth.
Physical abuse is equally severe, including actions like beating that result in broken bones or using restraints to prevent the patient from seeking help in extreme cases, caregivers may take the patient's phone leaving them completely isolated especially if they are paralyzed. bedridden and entirely dependent on the caregiver.
These behaviors represent extreme neglect, abuse, and negligence each should be categorized and punish by law.
There is no justification for such actions
To change laws regarding who can be a caregiver several important measures should be considered.
1. ** Extensive training ** Laws should mandate comprehensive training for caregivers, ensuring they are equipped with skills and knowledge needed to provide high -quality care, this training should cover medical care emergency procedures and how to recognize and report signs of abuse or neglect.
2. ** Hiring Experienced individuals ** Caregivers should be required to have relevant experience before taking on responsibilities particularly for patients with complex needs this will help to ensure that only qualified individuals are entrusted with vulnerable patients.
3. ** Regular and Thorough Monitoring** Laws should require frequent and unannounced visits by higher authorities not just 90 days. Continuous documentation should maintain, recording the patient progress, living environment, whether they are receiving all necessary supplies, equipment and care.
4. ** Criminal Background checks and Testing ** All caregivers should undergo a thorough background checks and tastings regular to ensure they are fit to provide care. Any history of criminal behavior or substance abuse should disqualify them from being a caregiver.
5.** Recognition of patient Vulnerability ** patients with pre-existing conditions who cannot care for themselves should automatically qualify for protective measures Laws should ensure that these patients are not left to make decisions on their own without support.
** Strict Legal Consequences ** Violation of care should be treated as serious offense higher than a misdemeanor. to prevent repeated offenders. those found guilty should be permanently barred from caregiver's roles, including children and removal orders with protection orders from caregivers. Additionally, any household member who are aware of the abuse and do not report it should also face legal consequences.
7.** Mandatory Reporting ** laws should encourage the public to take action it they suspect abuse. Social Workers Doctors and other professional should mandate reporters and there should be a clear channel for the public to report suspected abuse such as Adult protective services or the police
IF YOU HEAR IT! OR SEE IT! REPORT IT!
You can call Adult Protective Services at 800-992-6978
Domestic Violence at 800-799-7233
Child Abuse at 317-775-6439
Elder Abuse 317-955-2790
and call your local police station
There is help available
My knew Book Called THOMAS SMITH and Son TOMMY coming out soon.
The reason for writing this book is to help put a curve and bring awareness that abuse in men is sometimes silent. There may be reasons we are not aware of. Abuse do not discriminate. It effects all gender both men and women. Some men are strong, great providers, protectors, supporters also smart and educated. These men are very well protected from Domestic Violence. And there are some men who sometimes do not know the meaning of Domestic Violence by tolerating bad behaviors from others and will take abuse for many years not knowing it's abuse. They experience the same signs and symptoms that woman go through staying in it too long and believing one day he/she will change it only gets worse while waiting. Abuse men get hit, punch, stab, and die through these violent acts. For that reason, we know that men hurt and feel pain it is never ok, and it is against the law to put your hands on anyone for controlling or demanding and brainwashing them to do things they do not want to do. Never give someone power and access over your mind Abuse men stay silent because it appears to others when they talk about it that they may appear as being weak, and men do not like to appear or be seen as weak. Many laws have been put in effect today to stop this kind of abuse and there is help finding the path to freedom. For anyone who experiencing Domestic Violence seek help if you know anyone that is going through Domestic Violence and or Child Abuse reach back and help you may be saving someone life. What is love (Corinthians Chapter 13 verse 4-7 NIV)
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First Book MISSING PIECES PUBLISH 2015
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A story that will tug at your heart.
In Missing Pieces Earlene Walkers first book she share her heartfelt story,
When Connie heard the lord calling her, she took a different path. Later to find out what the lord wanted. She shares the remaining of her story that is filled with hurt and pain in her book Missing Pieces REVEALD Her new book Missing Pieces It is a book of Child Abuse and Domestic Violence that is a heartfelt story that will tug at your heart. Another look at Connie as she expresses what comes after the abuse and violence.
In Missing Pieces Earlene Walkers first book she share her heartfelt story,
When Connie heard the lord calling her, she took a different path. Later to find out what the lord wanted. She shares the remaining of her story that is filled with hurt and pain in her book Missing Pieces REVEALD Her new book Missing Pieces It is a book of Child Abuse and Domestic Violence that is a heartfelt story that will tug at your heart. Another look at Connie as she expresses what comes after the abuse and violence.
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Second Book MISSING PIECES REVEALED 2016
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Third Book NO! STOP! DON"T DO THAT! 2018 Children's Book
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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
MAKE A PLAN that was written by Earlen Walker and College Professor and Activist Chalmer Thompson.
VALIDATION: THE FIRST HIT IS ALMOST A KNOCKOUT, IT DRAWS BLOOD. HE/ SHE IS LETTING YOU KNOW HE/ SHE IS PREPARING TO TAKE FULL CONTROL OF YOUR MIND, AND BODY. THE APOLOGY MAY COME OR NOT do not believe it until you believe it will never happen again. GET HELP. this is the time to end it. and ask for help THERE IS RESOURES AVAILABLE
DEMANDING: THE SECOND HIT. HE/SHE IS LETTING YOU KNOW THAT HE/SHE DEMANDS YOU TO DO WHAT HE/SHE Say DO. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS NOT Discriminated TO ONE GROUP OF PEOPLE IT CAN BE WOMEN, MAN and IN CHILDREN IT'S CHILD ABUSE Also the Elderly Abuse any gender.
PHYSICAL ABUSE: BATTERY AND BODY INJURY, ASSAULT, RAPE, CRIMINAL CONFINEMENT, BROKEN BONES, BUSTED LIPS, BLACK EYES. SMACKS IN THE FACE, KICK, AND STOMP. THIS IS WHERE THE HOSPITAL STAY IS LONG OR life-threatening IT CAN HAVE LONG TERM HEALTH ISSUSES or DEATH
MENTAL ABUSE IS MAKING ONE FEEL WORTHLESS BRINGING you may feel LOW SELF ESTEEM they may say WORDS LIKE (YOU WILL NEVER BE NOTHING) OR (NO ONE WANTS YOU.) THEY MAY REPEAT WORDS STATING YOU’RE A BAD PERSON. tTHIS CAN SOMETIMES BRING ON SUDICLE THOUGHTS MAING ONE FEEL USELESS
MAKE A PLAN that was written by Earlen Walker and College Professor and Activist Chalmer Thompson.
VALIDATION: THE FIRST HIT IS ALMOST A KNOCKOUT, IT DRAWS BLOOD. HE/ SHE IS LETTING YOU KNOW HE/ SHE IS PREPARING TO TAKE FULL CONTROL OF YOUR MIND, AND BODY. THE APOLOGY MAY COME OR NOT do not believe it until you believe it will never happen again. GET HELP. this is the time to end it. and ask for help THERE IS RESOURES AVAILABLE
DEMANDING: THE SECOND HIT. HE/SHE IS LETTING YOU KNOW THAT HE/SHE DEMANDS YOU TO DO WHAT HE/SHE Say DO. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS NOT Discriminated TO ONE GROUP OF PEOPLE IT CAN BE WOMEN, MAN and IN CHILDREN IT'S CHILD ABUSE Also the Elderly Abuse any gender.
PHYSICAL ABUSE: BATTERY AND BODY INJURY, ASSAULT, RAPE, CRIMINAL CONFINEMENT, BROKEN BONES, BUSTED LIPS, BLACK EYES. SMACKS IN THE FACE, KICK, AND STOMP. THIS IS WHERE THE HOSPITAL STAY IS LONG OR life-threatening IT CAN HAVE LONG TERM HEALTH ISSUSES or DEATH
MENTAL ABUSE IS MAKING ONE FEEL WORTHLESS BRINGING you may feel LOW SELF ESTEEM they may say WORDS LIKE (YOU WILL NEVER BE NOTHING) OR (NO ONE WANTS YOU.) THEY MAY REPEAT WORDS STATING YOU’RE A BAD PERSON. tTHIS CAN SOMETIMES BRING ON SUDICLE THOUGHTS MAING ONE FEEL USELESS
know that CONTROLLING DAMAGES OF ALOWING SOMEONE TO CONTROL YOU AND YOUR THOUGHTS.
VERBAL ABUSE: NAME CALLING, BRINGING YOU DOWN SUCH AS, YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO DO THINGS THE CORRECT WAY. IT COULD BE THAT THE ABUSER HAS SUFFER A TRADGEY OF A loved ONE OR A HORRIFIC ACT OF VIOLENCE / KILLING. THAT BROUGHT ON MENTAL ISSUE THAT WAS NEVER CORRECTED. DRUG ABUSE. THESE ACT CAN ALSO BE LINK TO ALCOHOL ABUSE, MOTHER OR FATHER IN AND OUT OF PRISION AND OTHER GENDERS. IT IS SAD THAT IT CAN GO ON THROUGH A LIFETIME AND DESTORY YOUR ENTIRE LIFE WITH OUT CORRECTION OR HELP. IT IS UNKOWN WHERE TO GETTHE PROPER RESOURCES TO GET HELP. GET OUT! THERE IS MORE INFORMATION ON THIS WEBSITE.
THE PATH TO FREEDOM WRITTEB BY EARLENE WALKER AND CHLMER THOMPSON COLLEGE PROFFESSOR AND ACTIVIST. AND A LIST CALLED MAKE A PLAN
SOCIAL ABUSE: HE/SHE WILL TRY TO KEEP ALL FAMILY, FRIENDS. ANYTHING THAT IS CLOSE TO YOU AWAY. HE/SHE WANTS YOU TO BELIEVE HE/SHE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CARES AND LOVES YOU. HE/SHE FEARS THAT OTHERS WILL SEE WHAT IS GOING ON AND FEAR ANY KNOWLEDGE YOU RECIVES FROM OTHERS. I USE HE / SHE BECAUSE THIS INCLUDES MAN OR Women
WITHDRAWN: ISOLATION, STAYING IN THE HOUSE, NOT ALLOW OUTSIDE, HIDDING YOUR BRUISES THAT ARE SEVERE AND THE ENBRASSMENT OF IT BEING SEEN BY OTHERS. THE SADDEST PART IS YOU"RE ALWAYS THINKING THAT ONE DAY THEY WILL CHANGE. IT DON'T, IT JUST GET WORSE. MAKE A PLAN TO LEAVE AND GET HELP. THIS IS NOT YOU FAULT YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG. THIS IS A PART OF MENTAL ISSUES CYCLES AND PATTERNS. SOMETIMES ABUSE IS ALL THEY KNOW
WE MUST IMPLEMENT STRAGEIES AND KNOWLEDGE CONTINUOUSLY TO MAKE LAWS AND POLICY THAT ARE EFFECTIVE AND RELABLE TO PUT A CURVE ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND CHILD ABUSE. YOU MUST WANT THE HELP TO MAKE A PLAN GET OUT AND LEAVE.
THREATENING: TO HARM YOU THIS IS NOT A LOVE TAP THEY MEAN WHAT THEY ARE SAYING, AND YOU SHOULD BELIEVE IT. HE/SHE WILL TELL YOU WHEREVER YOU GO, HE/SHE WILL FIND YOU AND IF HE/SHE WILL KILL YOU.
NEVER FORGET THE ABUSER HAS STUDY YOU. THEY KNOW YOUR WEAKNESS
AND THEIR ONLY. FOCUS IS TO MAKE YOU WEAKER. PLEASE REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST PERSON THEY HAVE ABUSE.
IT IS A PATTERN AND THE CYCLES ROTATE.
TO ALL OTHER IF YOU SEE IT, HEAR IT, REPORT IT. YOU MAY BE SAVING A LIFE.
An abuser has more than one recurring acts-of violence that cause bodily harm and injury and could sometimes ends in death. They are demanding, insecure and very controlling and they have a very thin line of tolerance and patience. A professional abuser wants things to go one way even if it is the wrong way. In rage they spiral out of control to calm their madness with in themselves. Professional abuser sets out to find the weakness in others.
They have a sickness that some call it mental illness a very widespread journey that is everywhere. They can hurt, kill, burn or even hold you against their will. The professional Abuser has done this many times and it will not be the last time. Some believe they will never get caught, the abused either drop the charges or didn’t show up to court. So, the abusers feel they can do it again and get away with it. This is why many abusers feel like they are unstoppable. Many stays in abusive relationship in fear of the threats from the abuser or scared to venture out on their own or they have no financial support and they have been in the abusive relationship so long that they adapted to that environment. The many more reasons to leave. There is a way to stop pampering your wounds and protecting the abuser going through the IF’s and IF’s not. The abuser does not discriminate they will abuse a newborn baby to an elderly person.
All Violence is bad Connie Johnson states that, and it is widespread she calls it LOCA VIOLENCE with physiological disorders, such as anxiety disorders, depression. high level of stress, psychopath, bipolar effects and may more disorders. It can bring on drug abuse, alcohol abuse, gun violence, suicidal thoughts long prison sentences, and health issues. There is help for the Abuser. the abuser can find help and resources to find out what make them angry and why do they want to hurt anyone, or they can get help finding themselves and who they really are. There are programs available if they want help. Domestic violence is not one subject it involves many subjects.
-Missing Pieces Publishing, Earlene Walker
August 15, 2023
Connie experience with Domestic Violence was fear, she always says its fear. For years she did not know why she let her abuser tear into her mind, brain washing causing her to feel as if something was wrong with her. He was controlling, and demanding, insecure, jealous, and evil, who tried to take her life! The beating was not a soft touch it was a closed fist, hard hit that would leave her floor running (mean; body on the floor moving swiftly) her body was not completely healed from the child abuse. The child abuse stopped 1 year before Connie turned 18. Her abuser took over her world, it was his world and OH how she made sure she had to make it perfect for him. Connie had one hour to return home. If she was late, he would beat her. Whenever she left with her abuser if they were around others, she would walk keeping her head to the ground to prevent her from being accused and getting beat horribly when they return. Why didn’t she leave? no financial stability no education and because she was child abused, she thought there was no one better. Once again, she was a doctor of her own wounds. If someone would touch her or come to close, she would jump thinking they would hurt her.
Connie realizes that she allowed her abuser to make her have lows esteem about herself and she was not worthy of being love. She forgot the person she was, she lost her smile, her personality, her character, it took her goals and away from what she wanted to achieve. She lived in fear, Isolated, withdrawn and afraid. When Connie was abused, there was not one week free from the abuse before the beatings started all over again. When Connie left it was the beginning of finding herself. There were times that Connie would sit in her car at a park and wouldn’t get out to play with her own children, because her abuser said if she ever left, he would find her and kill her. She was afraid her abuser would find her and put her back in bondage and take her peace away or even try to kill her. Connie joined a church and moved where she couldn’t be found, and she promise herself she would never let a man abuse her ever again. Connie decided to take her low self-esteem and turn it into love yourself. Don’t wait for the abuser to change and it gets worse. Love Don’t hurt. It feels good to be loved.
To feel love and peace is not afraid to want it. It makes you feel so much better about yourself and being around others.
MAKE A PLAN
Getting Out or Leaving is the Plan
Put all important documents in a safe Place or give them to a trusted friend or family member.
File a restraint order immediately and follow up with all court dates.
If you have children talk with their school tell them what is happening and make a list of who can pick up and drop off.
Change locks on all doors apply security cameras or relocate. if you must.
Do not give out personal telephone number or address to anyone but trusted ones!
Join a group, or church get counseling.
Take a self-defense Couse that can help you defend yourself. this help a lot there is certain place on the body you can discover for a knockout,
Protect yourself and watch your surroundings.
Do not agree to meet anywhere or talk stay away. It can be very dangerous for you at this time be careful and stay private.
Remove your personal things secretly such as clothes shoes and other things. pack without them knowing your things are missing have a trusted family member to pick them up while they are away and out the house,
Moving day
Since your clothing and shoes have been removed your next step should be moving big items. this is the time you might be in great danger once the abuser know you are leaving.
Call the Police and have them wait while you remove any big things such as furniture, please make sure you have a truck and people that can help you remove your things. make sure your moving team is there to remove your items quickly without outburst and Confrontations. DON"T LOOK BACK
HAPPY JOURNEY INTO THE LIFE OF YOU. May GOD bless you with your new life.
04/21/2024
The person abused life is shattered, it will affect you for many years. sometimes turning you into someone you don't know. It can change you from being free verse bondage. The effects can bring health issue.
Lets' look at them.
Anxiety
Depression
Pamper injuries.
Pain and hurt physically and mentally.
What about the headaches felling sad and alone
Stomach problems, nervous, feeling unlove.
Very high level of stress
Then here comes withdrawn keeping yourself isolated even from your loved ones, hidden emotions.
What about low self-esteem what do you think of yourself? do you love yourself enough not to let another do the same repeating cycles and patterns?
The abuser well let you know that no one loves you, and you are a bad person? Don't believe it.
Abuse effect The Abuse when trying to leave or get out it's not over, getting back to you is a process it does not happen overnight it takes time, also after being free remember you are so fragile the building blocks and trust have got to be torn down one pattern at a time, and its will be hard for others to connect to you. Slow down take your time getting back to know you.
Harder laws, punishment and policy changes needs to bring effective awareness and put a curve on this type of behavior that is never acceptable,
Let's look at a different High-level Patterns that can range from many levels starting.
From childhood.
To adult hood
To elderly abuse
a full life, can you imagine giving someone full control over you with force? Demanding you to do things you don't want to do. Some sitting in it for years not knowing it's called Fake love it never changes.
Love is unconditional anyway you are I'm going to love you and not ever hurt you. GOD"S love
VERBAL ABUSE: NAME CALLING, BRINGING YOU DOWN SUCH AS, YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO DO THINGS THE CORRECT WAY. IT COULD BE THAT THE ABUSER HAS SUFFER A TRADGEY OF A loved ONE OR A HORRIFIC ACT OF VIOLENCE / KILLING. THAT BROUGHT ON MENTAL ISSUE THAT WAS NEVER CORRECTED. DRUG ABUSE. THESE ACT CAN ALSO BE LINK TO ALCOHOL ABUSE, MOTHER OR FATHER IN AND OUT OF PRISION AND OTHER GENDERS. IT IS SAD THAT IT CAN GO ON THROUGH A LIFETIME AND DESTORY YOUR ENTIRE LIFE WITH OUT CORRECTION OR HELP. IT IS UNKOWN WHERE TO GETTHE PROPER RESOURCES TO GET HELP. GET OUT! THERE IS MORE INFORMATION ON THIS WEBSITE.
THE PATH TO FREEDOM WRITTEB BY EARLENE WALKER AND CHLMER THOMPSON COLLEGE PROFFESSOR AND ACTIVIST. AND A LIST CALLED MAKE A PLAN
SOCIAL ABUSE: HE/SHE WILL TRY TO KEEP ALL FAMILY, FRIENDS. ANYTHING THAT IS CLOSE TO YOU AWAY. HE/SHE WANTS YOU TO BELIEVE HE/SHE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CARES AND LOVES YOU. HE/SHE FEARS THAT OTHERS WILL SEE WHAT IS GOING ON AND FEAR ANY KNOWLEDGE YOU RECIVES FROM OTHERS. I USE HE / SHE BECAUSE THIS INCLUDES MAN OR Women
WITHDRAWN: ISOLATION, STAYING IN THE HOUSE, NOT ALLOW OUTSIDE, HIDDING YOUR BRUISES THAT ARE SEVERE AND THE ENBRASSMENT OF IT BEING SEEN BY OTHERS. THE SADDEST PART IS YOU"RE ALWAYS THINKING THAT ONE DAY THEY WILL CHANGE. IT DON'T, IT JUST GET WORSE. MAKE A PLAN TO LEAVE AND GET HELP. THIS IS NOT YOU FAULT YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG. THIS IS A PART OF MENTAL ISSUES CYCLES AND PATTERNS. SOMETIMES ABUSE IS ALL THEY KNOW
WE MUST IMPLEMENT STRAGEIES AND KNOWLEDGE CONTINUOUSLY TO MAKE LAWS AND POLICY THAT ARE EFFECTIVE AND RELABLE TO PUT A CURVE ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND CHILD ABUSE. YOU MUST WANT THE HELP TO MAKE A PLAN GET OUT AND LEAVE.
THREATENING: TO HARM YOU THIS IS NOT A LOVE TAP THEY MEAN WHAT THEY ARE SAYING, AND YOU SHOULD BELIEVE IT. HE/SHE WILL TELL YOU WHEREVER YOU GO, HE/SHE WILL FIND YOU AND IF HE/SHE WILL KILL YOU.
NEVER FORGET THE ABUSER HAS STUDY YOU. THEY KNOW YOUR WEAKNESS
AND THEIR ONLY. FOCUS IS TO MAKE YOU WEAKER. PLEASE REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST PERSON THEY HAVE ABUSE.
IT IS A PATTERN AND THE CYCLES ROTATE.
TO ALL OTHER IF YOU SEE IT, HEAR IT, REPORT IT. YOU MAY BE SAVING A LIFE.
An abuser has more than one recurring acts-of violence that cause bodily harm and injury and could sometimes ends in death. They are demanding, insecure and very controlling and they have a very thin line of tolerance and patience. A professional abuser wants things to go one way even if it is the wrong way. In rage they spiral out of control to calm their madness with in themselves. Professional abuser sets out to find the weakness in others.
They have a sickness that some call it mental illness a very widespread journey that is everywhere. They can hurt, kill, burn or even hold you against their will. The professional Abuser has done this many times and it will not be the last time. Some believe they will never get caught, the abused either drop the charges or didn’t show up to court. So, the abusers feel they can do it again and get away with it. This is why many abusers feel like they are unstoppable. Many stays in abusive relationship in fear of the threats from the abuser or scared to venture out on their own or they have no financial support and they have been in the abusive relationship so long that they adapted to that environment. The many more reasons to leave. There is a way to stop pampering your wounds and protecting the abuser going through the IF’s and IF’s not. The abuser does not discriminate they will abuse a newborn baby to an elderly person.
All Violence is bad Connie Johnson states that, and it is widespread she calls it LOCA VIOLENCE with physiological disorders, such as anxiety disorders, depression. high level of stress, psychopath, bipolar effects and may more disorders. It can bring on drug abuse, alcohol abuse, gun violence, suicidal thoughts long prison sentences, and health issues. There is help for the Abuser. the abuser can find help and resources to find out what make them angry and why do they want to hurt anyone, or they can get help finding themselves and who they really are. There are programs available if they want help. Domestic violence is not one subject it involves many subjects.
-Missing Pieces Publishing, Earlene Walker
August 15, 2023
Connie experience with Domestic Violence was fear, she always says its fear. For years she did not know why she let her abuser tear into her mind, brain washing causing her to feel as if something was wrong with her. He was controlling, and demanding, insecure, jealous, and evil, who tried to take her life! The beating was not a soft touch it was a closed fist, hard hit that would leave her floor running (mean; body on the floor moving swiftly) her body was not completely healed from the child abuse. The child abuse stopped 1 year before Connie turned 18. Her abuser took over her world, it was his world and OH how she made sure she had to make it perfect for him. Connie had one hour to return home. If she was late, he would beat her. Whenever she left with her abuser if they were around others, she would walk keeping her head to the ground to prevent her from being accused and getting beat horribly when they return. Why didn’t she leave? no financial stability no education and because she was child abused, she thought there was no one better. Once again, she was a doctor of her own wounds. If someone would touch her or come to close, she would jump thinking they would hurt her.
Connie realizes that she allowed her abuser to make her have lows esteem about herself and she was not worthy of being love. She forgot the person she was, she lost her smile, her personality, her character, it took her goals and away from what she wanted to achieve. She lived in fear, Isolated, withdrawn and afraid. When Connie was abused, there was not one week free from the abuse before the beatings started all over again. When Connie left it was the beginning of finding herself. There were times that Connie would sit in her car at a park and wouldn’t get out to play with her own children, because her abuser said if she ever left, he would find her and kill her. She was afraid her abuser would find her and put her back in bondage and take her peace away or even try to kill her. Connie joined a church and moved where she couldn’t be found, and she promise herself she would never let a man abuse her ever again. Connie decided to take her low self-esteem and turn it into love yourself. Don’t wait for the abuser to change and it gets worse. Love Don’t hurt. It feels good to be loved.
To feel love and peace is not afraid to want it. It makes you feel so much better about yourself and being around others.
MAKE A PLAN
Getting Out or Leaving is the Plan
Put all important documents in a safe Place or give them to a trusted friend or family member.
File a restraint order immediately and follow up with all court dates.
If you have children talk with their school tell them what is happening and make a list of who can pick up and drop off.
Change locks on all doors apply security cameras or relocate. if you must.
Do not give out personal telephone number or address to anyone but trusted ones!
Join a group, or church get counseling.
Take a self-defense Couse that can help you defend yourself. this help a lot there is certain place on the body you can discover for a knockout,
Protect yourself and watch your surroundings.
Do not agree to meet anywhere or talk stay away. It can be very dangerous for you at this time be careful and stay private.
Remove your personal things secretly such as clothes shoes and other things. pack without them knowing your things are missing have a trusted family member to pick them up while they are away and out the house,
Moving day
Since your clothing and shoes have been removed your next step should be moving big items. this is the time you might be in great danger once the abuser know you are leaving.
Call the Police and have them wait while you remove any big things such as furniture, please make sure you have a truck and people that can help you remove your things. make sure your moving team is there to remove your items quickly without outburst and Confrontations. DON"T LOOK BACK
HAPPY JOURNEY INTO THE LIFE OF YOU. May GOD bless you with your new life.
04/21/2024
The person abused life is shattered, it will affect you for many years. sometimes turning you into someone you don't know. It can change you from being free verse bondage. The effects can bring health issue.
Lets' look at them.
Anxiety
Depression
Pamper injuries.
Pain and hurt physically and mentally.
What about the headaches felling sad and alone
Stomach problems, nervous, feeling unlove.
Very high level of stress
Then here comes withdrawn keeping yourself isolated even from your loved ones, hidden emotions.
What about low self-esteem what do you think of yourself? do you love yourself enough not to let another do the same repeating cycles and patterns?
The abuser well let you know that no one loves you, and you are a bad person? Don't believe it.
Abuse effect The Abuse when trying to leave or get out it's not over, getting back to you is a process it does not happen overnight it takes time, also after being free remember you are so fragile the building blocks and trust have got to be torn down one pattern at a time, and its will be hard for others to connect to you. Slow down take your time getting back to know you.
Harder laws, punishment and policy changes needs to bring effective awareness and put a curve on this type of behavior that is never acceptable,
Let's look at a different High-level Patterns that can range from many levels starting.
From childhood.
To adult hood
To elderly abuse
a full life, can you imagine giving someone full control over you with force? Demanding you to do things you don't want to do. Some sitting in it for years not knowing it's called Fake love it never changes.
Love is unconditional anyway you are I'm going to love you and not ever hurt you. GOD"S love
